By Terri Wilson
It’s Not Illegal to Make Bad Decisions—But Maybe It Should Be
That might sound harsh, but after years of working with seniors and families, I’ve witnessed far too many heartbreaking situations. Just this week, I experienced yet another one that shook me to the core.
In this case, an adult child decided to ignore the advice of their grandparent’s doctor, healthcare professionals, and our Elder Care Advisor. These experts—each with years of experience and no personal gain—offered recommendations to ensure the grandparent’s safety, health, and long-term care. However, despite their best efforts, the advice was dismissed.
Facing the Reality of Aging
It is never easy to accept that the parent who once stayed up all night when you were sick, helped with your homework, and sacrificed so much to provide for you, is now in need of care. It can be emotionally overwhelming to realize that they are aging, vulnerable, and facing an uncertain future.
We encourage families to hold onto hope—but we also believe in preparing for the worst. Planning ahead is not about giving up; it’s about ensuring that your loved one receives the right care at the right time.
The Consequences of Ignoring Professional Advice
It’s hard to watch when families, out of love or fear, make decisions that could jeopardize a senior’s well-being. Ignoring professional recommendations can lead to tragic outcomes. In this recent situation, we’ve done everything we can to advise and assist, yet the family chose a path that put their loved one’s health at risk.
I know with certainty that this grandparent will likely return to the emergency room—perhaps in worse condition, all because the recommended care plan wasn’t followed. My heart aches knowing that a preventable crisis may lie ahead. A nurse friend once told me, “It’s not illegal to make bad decisions… just hard to watch.” And she was right.
How Concierge Care Advisors Can Help
At Concierge Care Advisors, we bring years of experience guiding families through life’s toughest transitions. Whether you are dealing with a sudden hospitalization, a new diagnosis like dementia, or long-term care planning, we are here to provide the support and expertise you need.
The best part? Our services are free. We offer advice, education, and compassionate guidance with no hidden costs or obligations. Our goal is to ensure your loved one receives the care they deserve while easing your burden.
Don’t Wait Until It’s Too Late
Making the right decisions early on can help prevent unnecessary hospital visits, stress, and heartache. We are here to stand by your side and offer trusted, professional advice every step of the way.
If you are facing overwhelming choices or don’t know where to begin, please pick up the phone and call us or fill out this form. With Concierge Care Advisors, you’ll find the peace of mind that comes from working with experienced professionals who genuinely care about your loved one’s well-being.
