By Vannah Rose Roberto, Certified Concierge Care Advisor
Breaking the Promise: Finding the Right Care When It’s Time
I meet with many families who struggle with tough decisions because of promises they made to their loved ones. These promises often sound familiar: “I promise I will take care of you when you’re older,” or “I won’t put you in the care of someone else.” This is a common and emotional challenge for caregivers.
But here’s the truth: It’s OK to break those promises if it means your loved one will get the care they need and deserve. It’s OK if it ensures they’ll be safe and receive daily attention that might not be possible at home. Making these difficult decisions is sometimes necessary for their well-being—and your own.
When a Family Realized It Was Time for Memory Care
I recently worked with a family struggling to care for their mother, who needed to transition to memory care. She was no longer safe living at home alone, and the family tried everything—taking turns sleeping over, dividing responsibilities, and managing her care around their busy schedules. They had promised her she’d never go to a senior living community.
After six months, they realized that keeping their promise wasn’t sustainable. Her care needs were overwhelming, and they weren’t able to meet them all on their own. Eventually, they reached out to Concierge Care Advisors for help.
Once we guided them through the process of finding the right memory care community, everything changed. Their mother thrived in her new environment, surrounded by peers and engaging in activities she loved. She quickly adjusted and found joy again in social interaction—something she had missed while living at home.
Making the Right Choice with Compassion and Support
At Concierge Care Advisors, we understand that every situation is unique, and these decisions are never easy. Whether your loved one needs memory care, assisted living, or senior living options that fit their physical, spiritual, and financial needs, we’re here to help. Our expert care advisors in Washington will walk with you every step of the way, ensuring that your loved one receives the care they deserve.
Struggling with a difficult decision? Let our expert care advisory services help you find the right solution. Contact us today for personalized support in navigating memory care or other senior living options. Your loved one deserves the best care, and we’re here to guide you through the journey with confidence.
