By Brenda Deschner, Certified Senior Advisor at Concierge Care Advisors
The holiday season is often a time for gratitude, family, and reflection. For me, it also brings a bittersweet reminder of a life-changing moment. It was the day before Thanksgiving when I received the call—the kind of call you never expect.
The hospital informed me that my mother, 4,000 miles away, had experienced what they believed was a stroke. “You need to come as soon as possible,” they said. I made immediate travel arrangements, but just an hour before my flight, I got the devastating update. My mother hadn’t had a stroke. Instead, she was in end-stage metastatic lung cancer, which had spread to her spine, kidneys, liver, and brain.
Doctors told me that she was incompetent to make decisions, had approximately two weeks to live, and that I would need to arrange for her to spend her final days in a nursing home.
Navigating an Overwhelming Situation
No one is ever prepared for a moment like this. Without a living will, Power of Attorney, or other preparations in place, I was left to make decisions I never imagined I’d face—all while grappling with the reality of losing my mother. I questioned every choice and felt utterly lost.
That experience changed my life and ultimately inspired my career in the senior care industry. I remember how overwhelming it felt to walk into the hospital, unsure of where to start. Today, when I work with families in hospitals, emergency rooms, or their homes, I carry those memories with me.
Finding Purpose in Helping Families
At Concierge Care Advisors (CCA), we strive to ensure that no one has to navigate these challenging moments alone. I am deeply thankful for the constant support and resources CCA provides, which allow me to educate and guide families toward safe, compassionate care environments.
Most importantly, I want to give heartfelt thanks to the families who trust me during such vulnerable times. It’s an honor to be invited into your lives and to assist with one of life’s most difficult transitions. I am committed to treating every family with dignity and respect, ensuring that you feel supported and informed every step of the way.
How Concierge Care Advisors Can Help
At CCA, we specialize in helping families navigate the complexities of senior care. Whether you’re facing an unexpected emergency or planning ahead, our Advisors provide expert guidance to match your loved one with the best care options for their unique needs.
Contact us today to learn how we can support you and your family. With CCA, you’re never alone in this journey.
